ralph grow up man..
u acting like we aint been cool forever yo
Ralph Buenconsejo
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July 1 at 12:22am
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dog, i told u to chill down with the cousin, i dont think u ever had someone u really looked after or over. ur hard headed and shit to not do as i asked u nicely too
JUSTIN ALLEN
July 1 at 9:46am
first of all man nothing is going on
but if there was you cant try and get in the way of that
its not your place
if 2 people dig each other you don't try and get in the way of that
if you was diggn a girl and her cousn was trying to get in the middle of it im sure you would understand why but at the same time you would still do what you want because if this girl made you happy , what her cousin has to say wouldn't really matter...
and 3rd
she is in cali you trippin over talking?
if anything
im ya boy you should be happy im cool with her because i wouldnt do anything to hurt her and anything i could do to make sure she is ok or feeling fine i would do that because 1 she cool and 2 she my boy/ family cousin..
i say go head and be salty a few more days then grow up and get over it because its not that serious and if you want to waste days in our life as friends being pissed over dumb shit you have the right to but i also have the right to tell you its stupid and you need to grow up
Ralph Buenconsejo
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July 1 at 11:33am
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I now nothings going on and bout that 2 people diggin each other shit. Shes with a clown who's influencing her towards shit. it happens but at least u can let them know, i let her know no one likes him for a good reason and she's dumb for being blind about it. Your homie and all but i know you with woman, Friend Or Relationship.
We've all been close here man and i dont think you get that idea. your my boy... and thats the thing I KNOW YOU, you get wreckless over feelings if you do catch feelings regardless wether its homie or not. Ive had close friends peoples caught feelins for but know dude is mad protective, I stay back or at LEAST talk to her like a homie. I understand cause i got close relatives were looking over. the elders look over the youngins man. you dont get that idea because i dont know if you dont have female cousins or ur just not like that with your family.
If you were homie talk to her like a homie, dont go flirtin, she'l fall with it. theres a difference between talkin like homies and flirtin, publicly at that. if this was another girl outside of fam i wouldnt give a fuck.
Overall/in general our perspective is different, its cool to be her homie but be her homie dont go talkin this and that. I asked u too, to chill with it. but u STILL talkin like she somethin to mess with. its like u couldnt respect that...
its not all dudes man its certain dudes im cautious with, if i know they not good for her than i step in and TRY and cockblock.
when it comes down to it, we have diff perspectives on this man. some'll see ur side, some'll see my side. I asked u already to chill yo im not going to keep askin. if ur gonna be a friend to her be a friend . and its not cool to disrespect a homies request especially when it comes to family yo.
this arguement can for days but its all simple man, if ur gonna fuck wit her fuck with her as friend, dont politic with her like u tryna get with her and shit. i already TOLD u that before and u couldnt respect it.
JUSTIN ALLEN
July 1 at 12:14pm
"I KNOW YOU, you get wreckless over feelings"
so you basically saying im not good enuff for ya cousin
thats how im taking it...
you really think im a that bad with girls huh?
dont answer that
obviously you dont know anything
i see it from your point of view and i understand i just dont agree
you can be there and give advise but she is going to do what she wants not just her but all people that are hearing "advise" from friends and family in the end they make the choice
and thats just how it is man.. you cant change that
if your trying to protect her im the last guy you should be worried about for real..
im pissed
i feel disrespected and i dont want to try and be cool with you right now
maybe 2maro but now i care less
you being there for her as she lives her life, is cool
you do that but remember some people have to experience certain things in there own in life to fully understand things and have a better knowledge on how to deal with those things the second time around or to have a heads up on how to deal with what may come next...
i'll try this again when im ready
you think about that and like i said before grow up woman
Ralph Buenconsejo
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July 1 at 12:27pm
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word do you.
Ralph Buenconsejo
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July 1 at 12:50pm
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try all u want man, it is what it is. u cant see my perspective and take things how u wanna take it. im grown im dealin with my business professionally, and im talkin to u grown, no name callin, nothing.
tommrow, next week,next month etc, careless to fuck with you. you been disrespected me from my request.im not even mad anymore just careless to fuck with you honestly. ima woman? u the one catching feelins young. im good.
If at all, you need to grow up, get over yourself, make wiser decisions, handle your shit in a professional level, Present yourself better, and open your mind up. ya heard, cause its obviously hasnt been working for you these past years ive known you.
im good son. do you and dont talk to me like im tryna be cool with you, you hit me up. im tellin how it was and u wanna take it negative. do you, no name callin. thats below my level.
fuck with me or not, can careless, real talk. again i wasnt the one tryna be cool with me...you hit me up.. your the one hurtin.
my cousin is cool, she had her and still experiences, im just here to help her not fuck up too bad, and if she does im still here to help them get back up. u dont see blood the way we see it, we straight family oriented here yo.
and to get on ur level...
take it how u wana take it, woman.
JUSTIN ALLEN
July 1 at 4:47pm
yo, uhmmm
the woman part was me just saying woman how we always said it
not in a disrespectful way
it was more a joke
smh..
cool tho
its a rap g
i wish you luck
stay safe man....
______________________________________
sooooooo, after this happened
i was thinking about the old days
like a lil softy, thinking about how he was there for me
ya know all the good times and stuff
then i thought about how things have been recently
and tought about the reason he seem to have a attitude
and then i thought you take uhmmm
lets see...
about 6 yrs of friendship
right...
then involve a family member
mix some conversations in
a lil add on facebook a lil following on twitter
and wah lah...
you get 2 friends having a convo like the one up above.
was this the recipe for ruining a friendship?
i like to look at it as something that needed to happen
in life you dont want people that will just bail on you around
so cutting him out of my life and what i mean by that is
by me basically not attempting to be cool with him anymore,
deleting all ways to contact him
packing up all the shirts i have from the clothing i was apart of
from the start in anyway i could be then either throwing them away
or giving them to the bay bro and to top it off
moving on in life as if he doesnt exist to me any more,
attitude free and even though the memories will always be there
i'll look at those just as i watch a tv show or a video on youtube,
when im done veiwing the past i'll move on with life
so what
its just a reply of something i seen already...
I still wish him the best
i meant what said
i dont hate him
he is just a person with a different way of thinking
i dont click well with people that have minds
that produce thoughts to far away from mine
if we cant meet half way there is no way we can be cool
i see where he is coming from and even after
reviewing the whole situation i dont see were im wrong
as far as people in my life go
1 down, who knows how many more to go?
My future is bright
Im still in a sunshine state of mind....
He didn't dim a thing.
